" Looks Don't Matter to me. "

" Looks don't matter to me. "

This sentence, is one of the biggest lies in the history of mankind.

To those who said this to show your friends that you are not a " judgemental " person and that you only care about the inside....

PLEASE, just for this moment, be brave enough to admit that you still care about how your partner look .. Even if it's not 100%...

No matter how kind you are, how passionate and generous you are or how good you are in something, when a girl/guy first notice you, your looks will be the first impression that you give to someone.

Maybe girls like to see how confident he is, or how he acts in public, but guys, admit it, the first thing that you see before getting to know a girl is how attractive she looks.

So people are like books, your outside is like the cover and your inside is like the contents. So you can't really ditch one for the other. If the design is shitty, no one will buy. If the inside is shitty, people will regret buying you.

Also, looking good boost both YOUR confidence and your partner's confidence. I mean, who doesn't like being noticed walking around with an attractive partner? Or to show to your friends how good looking your boyfriend/girlfriend look?

So.... Looks do matter!

But... WAIT!!!

 

 

 

Before you start thinking of me as a judgemental person who is bias towards attractiveness, I just want to say that looks do matter... BUT not a 100%.

Like I've said, both the outside and inside are important to define the kind of person you are.

So if you're a person who is not really good looking, It's okay, be yourself and NEVER go for plastic surgery. What you can do is to work on the insides more ( Don't worry, you are not books literally, people won't look just from the cover. ).

Be good in something, studies, sports, music, art, anything that is your interest and potential. Also, be kind and considerate towards others, be humble, be helpful. It's okay if your outside is not perfect or not really good, someday, someone will appreciate you for YOU :)

To those who are good looking, you're lucky, because half the battle is already won... YEA...

But still, always be humble. You already got the looks, but you also need the inside to be good. So what if you can attract a lot of people but they will end up finding that your inside are like shit? That's not good...

But if both your outside and inside are awesome, that's double kill!

Just kidding.... HEHE.. ^^

Of course, everyone has flaws, so always try to improve yourself and not be arrogant, even if your outside and inside are awesome...

After reading this you'll be thinking... Do I personally care about looks?

Well for me, as long as you are not so ugly, it's fine. I will look more on your personality and the kind of person you are. So... Average looking, will be okay.