Thursday, December 26, 2013

Chemistry

Have you ever met someone and after getting to know the person more, you start to feel as if you have a strange deep connection with the person? It's like there's a certain mystical attachment between you two. You can understand each other, talk endlessly without feeling awkward and stuff, and just enjoy each other's company. 

Well, that's a sign that there's chemistry between you and that person. I'm not gonna be talking about Chemistry with all the chemicals, atoms, etc. , but psychological or human-to-human chemistry.

Everyone has met lots of people in their lives, and I'm guessing that the people we have been meeting are classified into various different groups. There are people that we are really cool with, people that we feel neutral with, and people whom we just wanna punch in the face. 

Why does this happen? Well it's due to the diverse personalities of people in this world. For example, a person who is emotional and easily agitated will get along with sensitive but not insensitive people. 

Chemistry between certain individuals can't be changed. If there is chemistry, there will be. If there is not, then there will never be. For example, no matter how much person A tries to get along with person B, the chemistry between the two will never be the same as person A with C, which A has a great connection with. 




I'm not saying that we should judge and label the people in our lives, I'm just saying that the amount of chemistry vary between different individuals. Don't make enemies either, if you can't really get along with someone, then you guys can just be acquaintances. 










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