Although I may be hot-tempered,aggressive and impulsive at times, believe it or not, I am actually quite forgiving. I can forgive almost anything. I know that this is good as I don't bear grudges, but sometimes it ruins my plans to be mad at someone.
For example, if a person has done something/constantly do something to me that I do not like and I tell myself that I'm gonna be mad at this person to send him/her a signal that he/she is wrong, but I always fail at it.
It's like, whenever that person starts to be nice to me again or when he/she stops or after a period of time, I sort of lose all my anger I have for that person and feel neutral towards him/her again, or I may even start to treat the person nicely ( WHUTT .__. ..... ). And sometimes, I may start thinking things like, maybe I was in the wrong, maybe I did something to the person first...
I will still remember what the person did because you can forgive, but you can't forget. But I will just let the past be past, let bygones be bygones.
I guess I'm the type of person who easily let go of things because I'd rather look positively into the future and the present rather than just keep thinking about the past. I will still remember the past but it doesn't really affects me that much. Psychologically my mind just naturally escapes out of the confinements of the past and just travel to the future.
I have and was born with this " forgiving nature " of mine.
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